Here's what I know after 78 years: life is a lot like jazz. It's full of improvisation, unexpected rhythms, and sometimes, you find yourself playing the wrong notes. But kid, let me tell you something—you learn to play the rest notes too. Those pauses, those silences, they're just as important as the loud crashes.
I've played with legends, seen the highs and lows of life. I lost everything to addiction in my 40s, but I rebuilt. It wasn't easy; it took time, patience, and a lot of courage. There were moments when I felt like quitting, like quitting was the brave thing to do. But I kept going, one beat at a time.
Rebuilding your life after failure is tough. It's about finding your rhythm again, learning from your mistakes, and having the courage to start over. It’s not just about making a comeback; it’s about understanding that every note, every mistake, has its place in the melody of your life. That's what I learned when I rebuilt my life after addiction.
You see, bravery isn't always about big, dramatic moments. Sometimes, it's about the small things—like facing fear day by day. It’s about standing up for yourself and others, even when it feels hard. It’s about being brave enough to ask for help when you need it.
I've had my share of difficult conversations, moments where I had to face the thing I'd been avoiding. But each time, I learned something new. I learned that facing your fears can be liberating. It can teach you about yourself and help you grow.
And here’s another thing: happiness isn’t always easy to find. Sometimes it feels impossible, especially after trauma or loss. But there are ways to find joy in routine, to choose happy even when everything seems bleak. Finding joy can be as simple as appreciating the ordinary days.
I’ve learned that being good isn’t always easy either. There are times when it feels like a burden, especially when you’re tired or facing tough choices. But kindness and compassion are what make us human. They’re the notes that keep the rhythm going, even in a broken world.
So here’s my advice: don't be afraid to make mistakes. Don’t shy away from the rest notes. Embrace them. Because every note, every pause, is part of your unique melody. And remember, it's never too late for a second chance.
— Roger Jackson, still playing
Written by Roger Jackson — 05:21, 02 January 2026 (CST)